mundane

i think its fair to say that i've been disengaged
in some ways
the roller coaster of thoughts and emotions
climbing with those things spoken to me, about me
[you might never understand, l,
what that not-so-impromptu starbucks chat meant to me
and j, what those morning words over the telephone lines
did to remind me of who i am in Him -
and how thankful i am for your friendship now]
and plummeting some overnights,
sleepless? a new phenomenon for me
still asking the same old questions
but really
it is so simple
1 thessalonians 4.11.
it is this mundane faithfulness
[thank you kara]
and diligent obedience
that long, faithful walk in one direction
because He doesn't ask me to make a name for myself
He doesn't ask me to build a fortress of confidence
on a foundation of my own achievements
[He and i both know it would be sand]
He asks for fixed eyes
a goal that is high and deep and wide and long,
that doesn't fit within my narrow perspective
a heart that depends on sovereignty
all the while
this body, sown perishable, in dishonor, in weakness
prepares to be raised imperishable, in honor, in glory
and i have to understand myself
small,
while He, greatest of all,
holds all my hope and joy and peace
and every day
i fix these eyes on His glory
taking captive every thought to this end
certain that we will share in His glory
[if indeed we share in His sufferings]

jeremiah 6:16 (NIV)

this is what the Lord says:
“stand at the crossroads and look;
ask for the ancient paths,
ask where the good way is, and walk in it,
and you will find rest for your souls..

street sweeper

i walked tonight
72 degrees
clouds with peeks of sun
i walked
because i like to
but also because
i needed God to do what only He can
to fix my stupid attitude.
i had nothing to say
just steps.
i noticed things
first the crushed pieces of orange brown yellow
under feet and car tires
then the thought of a street sweeper
that brushes through all of the streets in grand rapids
and cleans our streets so that we don't drive
on the wet slimy slippery sludge
that would come with the first few snows.
then i saw l's new home
so close to mine still
and she, such a treasure to me.
i remembered the conversation that she had
just yesterday
with those 3 entrusted to her,
conversation about death and life
and that beautiful hope
because of that Father of ours.
then i thought of dreams that i've had
fully awake dreams
plans that i've made with Him
those hopes and joys and the things that
in the back of my mind
wait, still,
in the steps ahead of me
then i remembered those words written
that changed me, i think
those lines on the pages
that talked endlessly about awareness and gratitude.
thankfulness.
and how it changes a person
always and absolutely
and how i have moved away from that habit
i let go of the awareness gratitude thankfulness
weightless
and took up instead
anxiety fear impatience cynicism judgment
and pride. so. much. pride.
an impossible-to-bear yoke
and so
i remember who my God is
and i tell Him with all the words i can
i remember who i am
i tell Him with as few words as i can
and i lay my requests there
maybe even with no words
and i wait

and i wait.

Psalm 130 (NIV)

A song of ascents.

1 Out of the depths I cry to you, Lord;
2 Lord, hear my voice.
Let your ears be attentive
to my cry for mercy.
3 If you, Lord, kept a record of sins,
Lord, who could stand?
4 But with you there is forgiveness,
so that we can, with reverence, serve you.
5 I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits,
and in his word I put my hope.
6 I wait for the Lord
more than watchmen wait for the morning,
more than watchmen wait for the morning.
7 Israel, put your hope in the Lord,
for with the Lord is unfailing love
and with him is full redemption.
8 He himself will redeem Israel
from all their sins.

small

j uses this word a lot
and she's probably taught me more about it than anyone else i know
the gentle reprimand
drawing my attention to the state of my heart
when i speak those words
out of self-preservation
fear
pride
and it is a gift to me
really,
more than anything that i could accept into my hands
is the value of that kind of friendship
and she, among others,
with the soft call back to smallness
the recognition of my actual state before
the throne of Jesus.
and words, treasures, like these
cycle between my ears all weekend
because
it becomes apparent
that every inclination of my heart is only evil all the time
okay, maybe not quite so bad
but
needy nonetheless
very much
and those professors remind
every week
that the goal
is not critical spirits
but critical minds

and this song
on repeat
reminds and reminds and reminds
deuteronomy 8
that He alone is worthy of greatness
and the smallness, mine
that gift
and i am in the place for which i was designed
and this is the best place.

reins

when you're skating through life
with very few concerns
nothing keeping you up at night
not even a newborn baby down the hall
there are those things that you think that you have a little bit of control over
and for that reason
God,
who is rich in mercy,
because of His great love for you,
starts to draw the reins back
out of your control
and you are left
assessing what in your life really has value -
that stable job
that promising relationship
the ability to walk, run, with no pain
that car that has had literally no problems since you bought it
the well-being of your family
the security of your living situation
finances
school and classes and dreams
and He
draws your attention to all of it
and He says no
these things
have no say in determining your worth and purpose and hope
and you will recognize this
sooner
or later
and He'll do it
because of His great love for you
and because He is rich in mercy

immovable

making lists, the discipline or organization
helps to regain
the reality of my sanity
in Christ
my joy + crown
the One for whom i lay all other things aside
and that pride
that both drives me forward
and also anchors me to those shakable rocks
time and again
but when You, Jesus, shake all that i thought was so secure
and You're all that's left peering back at me
the windows of Your soul
seeing straight into mine
and You know each thought
and the dreams that tornado there
getting tangled [too] often
in those sticky strings that stretch from corner to corner,
fear,
yet
You see the end to the beginning
and you know
with all that confidence that is appropriately Yours,
how those webs need offer no intimidation
because the victory, the sonship, the righteousness, the finished work
they've been set immovably in their place
that dash on the timeline that we call "not yet,"
but already,
and the inhale and exhale comes shallower
and the heart decelerates
and that canvas before me bears those words
for from Him and through Him and to Him are all things
to Him be the glory forever. amen.
and does anything else matter anymore?
okay, yes, it does,
but its yoke is now limited

therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken,
let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe
[hebrews 12.28]

maybe

what if?
what if we would credit Him with the good and the bad
and label the responsibility His for our healing and our forward progress?
the 44th psalm speaks in a majority discouraged tone
as the sons of korah write in full confidence that God is the source of their
pain, scattering, disgrace, their humbling,
and the last line?
rise up and help us; rescue us because of your unfailing love.
does it seem contradictory?
if you said yes you're not alone.
in fact probably the majority of self-identified christians would probably say the same
but
there's more to the discussion
there's more to the way that this possible contradiction plays out
a couple of options -
it is possible that the bible is full of contradiction that assists in proving the book's nature as all
allegory, poetry, art, symbolism
which leaves a lot of room for subjectivism
it is also possible that within this seeming contradiction
are layers of reality, the comprehension of which transcends human ability
and this contradiction is instead a beautiful compatibility
the coming together of sovereign God and dependent man
a partnership in which the one party is wisest, strongest, most humble, most compassionate
and the other is most trusting, most grateful, most cared for
even when
the pain, scattering, disgrace, humbling
doesn't make sense in these minds of limited capacity

just maybe
submission to the impossible-to-understand ways of the only-for-now unseen God
could pay massive dividends
in the currency of freedom
that lightest-weighted freedom
of safety, fearlessness, complete confidence, full acceptance
the kind that feels like those endless days of [healthy] childhood

and this way of living, i am convinced, would bring
an aboundingly fresh joyful light on all of these controversies and debates of our day
the ones that demand that God is chiefly concerned with mankind's pleasure and happiness
over His own glory and His wisest of all plans

and here is bit more commentary on this idea, a [crossroads bible church] sermon favorite

team

find our team blog here. hear what some of our students had to say about the time that we spent in jamaica.

29

the few years before this last seemed to have so many changes that i had so much to share, always.
this past year has seen consistency, which is relatively unfamiliar to me lately, but which i am coming to love more than the constant change.
God is so particular in the details that He ordains,
and the pieces of the story that have left me the most frustrated and disheartened
are the very details that have most prepared me for the pruning and maturation that He has been actively fostering in my life.
and it is now, at this place in time where i can see more of myself and more of my context than i've ever been able to before,
it is now and here that i am most softened to my need for His help and i try to wade through the day to day with
patience
wisdom
joy.
and it is from here that i can look back and see how He has answered so many of our unfinished conversations.
we have our youth pastor and a new season will begin soon.
as one of my greatest joys, my small group 6
will take some sort of new direction
...high school juniors and seniors
and em + i so [tearfully] proud of each of them.

these lifelong friendships
this year, for some reason, uncomfortable, challenging
yet now still strong, or even more so.

and that as-long-as-i-can-remember battle with myself
but with God's help i shall become myself.
and that kirkegaard quote that i have always loved
has taken on a new meaning this year.
i've found real rest
a rich and dense freedom
when Christ alone is my satisfaction
and He, who knows me more intimately than any other,
delights in the self that is free from performance or insecurity.
29 + single = still joy
and children, from sunrise to dinner time = Gospel, for the most valuable fruit
home = friendship of the truest kind. the generosity, patience, grace that i've received translates to that which i am learning to give in return.

so when you say there's something there that wasn't there before (go ahead and sing it, i am),
it is confidence. His.
and rest. mine.
and that same joy. gift.

the Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in Him. psalm 37.

helping

one month until departure.
i had promised that we would have more details as time went on
but it appears that our time in jamaica will play out differently than we had all imagined.
what do you think of when you think of a "typical" short term mission trip?
building houses? building a school or church building? playing with the little ones abandoned to a the orphanages? painting? distributing goods or resources to those who live without?
some of these things were what we had expected to be doing, one month from tomorrow.
however
we've been reading, as a team,
this book: when helping hurts
and it has challenged us, each of us, to understand poverty differently.
"poverty is much more than simply a lack of financial or material resources and that it takes much more than donations and handouts to solve the problem of poverty" says the amazon.com description of the book.
while most of the developed world defines poverty as a lack of material resources (and subsequently seeks to "solve" poverty accordingly), most of those living in poverty describe their conditions with little to no reference to their financial state, but so much more in terms of their value as individuals and as families.
if we recognize that the [self-recognized] deepest need of world's most vulnerable families is not their lack of material resources, but a lack of a sense of value and opportunity to contribute anything meaningful to society.

if indeed this is the deepest need that our brothers and sisters face, how can the church, through short-term missions + otherwise, with the vast tools and resources that God has given to us, help to alleviate poverty?

i posted an chart here that shows the avenues through which LiA seeks to care for the vulnerable. LiA partners serve in a way that avoids offering donations and handouts and instead serves to develop the individual + the community. LiA partners are many professionals who identify broken systems and capable individuals. the ministry spends time equipping and empowering individuals to step into the change process with their own feet and hands in the work. this, argue steve corbett and brian fikkert in when helping hurts, is the fundamental need of impoverished communities, families, individuals. so this is where we will begin - learners, listeners, observers, speakers of value, as we pioneer the first high school mission trip partnering with LiAjamaica. we go with an itinerary that asks of us flexibility and humility, expecting that with joy we'll have many more details to share once we return home.

thank you all for you continued prayers and encouragement as we continue to work as a team to know one another and to prepare compassionate hearts for the friends that we will find in jamaica.

jamaica

2 months from today
our team of 25
is jamaica-bound.

i am so grateful to be able to say that God has,
through my dear friends and family,
provided all of the financial support that i needed to cover my expenses.
so [THANK YOU] to each of you who have sent money to help! thank you for being excited for me and for the team as we prepare to go, thank you for praying that God would prepare the way for us + teach us along the way, thank you for asking questions and for encouraging me.

for those of you who don't know what i'm talking about...
17 high school students + 8 leaders
from crossroads bible church
june 24-july 2
partnering with the amazing staff from LIA-jamaica

Life In Abundance